--Be Dumped or Do the Dumping--

“He isn’t the guy that I used to know! He’s a stranger now!” I knew exactly who she was talking about but gave any special attention for that case seemed wasting the time, so I just sat and still. Listening. Or the truth, ignoring.

“What’s on a man’s mind?” She kept talking, but I kept working. 

“He seems like do not have any guts to solve anything between us. I know we’re in trouble, but none of us seems want to admit it. There’s something happen to him. I am sure.” She was going to cry.

“He’s not him. All the things that I knew since the first time we met are not there anymore. I love him but for now he’s really a stranger!” The tears welled up in her eyelid. 

Perfect! Just waiting for another fifty second, it would be fall from her eyes. Like all the roman did in its story. Love, life and tears. Ugh! Was there any other kind of story that I could watch?

Knowing that I didn’t really pay attention, she looked at me angrily.

 “Tia!”her voice was really annoying this time. 

“What?” I shouted

“Are you listening?”

“I am!”

“And?”

I stopped doing anything now. “Yeah, I am listening.” 

“Then, say something!” 

Well, what do you expect me to say to this damn boring story? Should I say, Oh, poor Lisa (my friend’s name)? Then, bla bla bla or anything that made me seemed like defending her. Or, tried to calm her down and told her he shouldn’t do that to her. Or do I have to go to his house and told him, how much does the pain that he made for her? I am asking to myself in this part. Really I am.

If you were me, what would you say?

I know that love story could be as beautiful as the true love in the fairytale, but the reality? U, uh! Think about it! Many of girls would choose to stay with this kind of story. You know, the story when the guy feel bored with the girl or even want to get over the relationship but isn’t brave enough to say ‘I am done’. The girl somehow stuck on the useless hard time that she designed by herself, waiting for the guy, changing his mind. Dumb! 

Come on, girls. What would you do if the guy who you think ‘the man’ in your life isn’t the right guy for your future? But you’ve been spending much of your precious time, crying of him. I say, you dumb! Really dumb! Like I told Lisa, you ask my advice, I’ll give it.

Then, I said. “Give me your phone!” 

“What?” She looked totally confuse. 

“Just give it!” Feeling doubt but finally she gave it to me in the end.

No need much time to type several words in its screen. Few second I gave the phone back to her.

“What the hell are you doing?” She screamed aloud when she knew what was being written in her sending item box.

“You ask for an advice. I gave the best that I can.” I was going back to my work, ignoring her. She would cry for a while, but, it didn’t matter, it would help to heal the wound that made by this freaking stupid story.

If you’re wondering about what did I make in the short message. The words were really simple. 

I am sorry, honey. I am done! Thanks a lot for have ever being mine

That’s it!

Just stop pretending that you’re OK while you’re not. Stop for being survived while you couldn’t. It just aggravates the wound which has already there. Why bother, right? Let it go! Faithful doesn’t mean being hurt all the way. You deserve for better. Deserve for happiness, which can be build from every single decision that you made in your life. Love isn’t hurt, when it hurts, it isn’t love

Just follow my simple suggestion IT’S BETTER FOR DO THE DUMPING INSTEAD OF BE DUMPED. Trust me girls! It works! ;)